Monday, October 31, 2005

Good things come to those who wait....




What a beautiful weekend here in Ohio. I was so bummed out and depressed about the rain and dreary weather from last weekend and figured I would miss out on the fall foliage once again. This weekend the rain clouds cleared, the sunshine came out , and I was able to get out and enjoy the beauty of fall. Saturday afternoon my friend Helene and I took my dog to the Dog Trail at Batelle Darby Metro Park. It was so beautiful outside and the color in the trees was breathtaking to say the very least.

Saturday night Helene and I hit the town for Halloween. After a nice meal out in the Short North we headed to the martini lounge for chocolate martinis- YUM! We met up with my friends Dan & Ray. After three martinis we were off to tradewinds to dance the night away. The place was packed and the music was jamming- we had a great time. Stayed out too late and drank in excess but hey it was Halloween!

Sunday I went to the Jeffersonville outlet mall with the parents- we took a long Sunday drive to get home and stopped by an old grist mill- it was a beautiful relaxing day to say the least.

Tonight is trick or treat- my Sister and nephew are coming down- it should be AWESOME.

Also on the good news side- I have a date for this Friday night- if you want more details - you'll have to call me- don't want the entire web community to know all the juicy details. We've been chatting for a while so maybe good things come to those who wait.

Enjoy these pictures of the tree right beside my condo and then the grist mill at Clifton Gorge.

Monday, October 24, 2005

Rainy Days & Mondays--- UGH

Today is a double header- rainy and Monday-- what fun!

The weekend turned out OK- I did have fun. Hung out both nights with my friend Dan- we painted the town red and lovely shades of silver. On Saturday he got a rental car as he was in the shop- they gave him a brand new Dodge Charger. Since the Dukes of Hazard drove a Dodge Charger we pretended to be Bo and Luke-- Dan is blonde so he was Bo and I was Luke. Neither of us wore Daisy Dukes.

The hayride and bonfire was cancelled- oh well at least we tried.

I got quite a bit of household chores done- paid some bills- and just generally stuck close to home.

Not sure what I should dress up for on Halloween- I was thinking about a pirate- but if anyone else has suggestions let me know. I also thought about buying a pair of scrubs to use a comfy pajamas and then getting a surgerical mask and one of those medical hats. I'll have to check out the phone book to see if I can find anything around town. To go out dancing though the surgical scrubs would be really comfortable!! Something to consider.

Friday, October 21, 2005

TGIF

To my loyal BLOG readers- I am sorry for the long delay in my writing. I just have not been in the chatty mood lately & therefore didn't have a lot to say. Perhaps it is because I am in this "blue" phase and have been for some time. It is all this being single AGAIN and facing 30 which is coming up in December. More than that it is taking a step back and looking over my life and realizing how quickly it is really flying by. Questioning to myself- is this where I want to be? What do I really want to do with my life? Is this as good as it gets (sorry for stealing the movie title). I have been working myself through several of these questions- and am feeling better- not completely out of the woods as of yet- but doing better.

My major spending spree on home improvements has continued. I purchased a new furnace this week... it is ironic that I will get the comission check to pay off the summer remodeling next week... just in time to take on more short term debt! Life is Funny like that- huh?

My church group is supposed to have a hayride/ bonfire tomorrow night- but the weather is not looking promising at all.

A major high-light of the week was lunch with a good friend Peggy yesterday. We worked together her at Nationwide for about 2 years and shared lunch a couple of times per week. She left here this spring for other endeavors- and I hadn't seen her since. It was great to catch up!

Gotta run for now!

Saturday, October 15, 2005

Striving for balance-

It has been a rough week of trying to get into the normal swing of things after the Arizona trip. I love being on the go, but when you look that ugly in basket sitting on your desk reality slaps you in the face. If it was any consolation it was a damp & dreary weather week in Ohio, which was perfect for getting back to work.

Today I met up with my sister, my dad, and my 2 year old nephew Devan for a morning apple picking adventure. Devan was much more amused by the tractors in the distance than picking the apples. I finally got him to pick the apples and he decided it would be much more fun to throw the apples than to place them gently in the bag.

After watching a Buckeyes football miracle come back in the 4th quater the entire family went to my cousins house for a fall harvest bonfire & hayride. It was a beautiful fall night illuminated by a full moon. My cousin Linda flew up from Atlanta with her 18 month old daughter Janie just for the occasion. It was great.

Feeling pretty tired so I'll update more later.

Monday, October 10, 2005




More Pictures-

Pictures from Arizona-

















If you made it clear through my Post yesterday- you are a true friend!
Enjoy These Pictures.

Sunday, October 09, 2005







Reflections on Arizona-
Sitting here at Phoenix Sky Harbor Airport I decided to take a few minutes to fire up the laptop and refelct on the week of travel that I have experienced. What an awesome trip. The weather was excellent the entire week, sunny and hot (90 degrees+ everyday). From the business standpoint Nationwide received their money's worth for my ticket out. I was able to meet with many of my best clients this week face to face. Phone coversations, email, and conference calls don't provide a true understanding of who you are truly dealing with. While I grumble and complain about my business partner out here in Phoenix for his old fashioned ways and reluctance to embrace technology, he is a very nice man. He really went the extra mile to make me feel welcome and to introduce me to several key players. The conversations we had over dinner and in the car were well worth while. On one hand he doesn't want to loose me as a team member he realizes that my skills and abilities will take me far and he wants to help me get to the next level of my career. This year has been my best year at Nationwide- I am poised to be the #1 sales representative in my division and will receive a very nice trip to Huntington Beach, CA during the winter as a reward (OK- that reminds me-- gotta get back to the gym).
I didn't get the partial vacation that I was hoping for on Nationwide's dollar-- the good side of it is that I still have some vacation time left to take and will have some money to do it on. I am considering a New Years/ 30th birthday trip at the end of the year-- if anyone wants to go let me know-- I originally was thinking Chicago-- but the warm sun and Palm trees on this trip reminded me of how much fun Florida or California would be (no worries Megan-- I'll still be up in November). I did get the opportunity to take a 4 hour Jeep tour through the desert on Friday afternoon - WOW that was amazing. The guide took us up to Mountain to a small plateau- where we could see for miles. Enermous cactus surrounded us as we enjoyed out picnic lunch. The guides educated the group on the history of the Indians that once habitated in the area. On a short hike we soon saw ancient indian carvings on the side of the mountain that told the history of the tribe that once lived there. Back in the Jeep we spotted some Jackrabbits and rattle snakes just doing their think out in the wilderness. The pure silence and the hot sun under the crystal blue sky was amazing and allowed me some time to absorb what this natural envionment was all about. I can not imagine being a pioneer and crossing the desert in a horse drawn wagon... what an adventure that must have been.
The resort where the conference was located was literally built up on the side of a mountain-- From the balcony of my room I could see the entire city lights of Tucson. Sparkling like a million diamonds against the mountains. It was beautiful.
I was surpised to discover what a Country and Western town this was. The radio dial is filled with country music and of course Mexican music. Last night (Saturday) I found the local western bar, Chariles. I went over about 10pm and the place was packed! Line dancing, two-stepping, cowboys, etc-- you name it, they had it. I am not the best dancer so I just enjoyed a cold drink and watched all the dancing from the sidelines. Talked to some locals-- but ending up hanging out with some guys from San Diego and Houston-- go figure the travelers all hang out together. Sad to say I was exhausted and was in bed by 12:30--- keep in mind I had been up since 5:45 AM after going to bed at 2 AM this nite before-- and after driving 2 hours from Tucson to Phoenix-- needless to say I will sleep good tonite-- and hopefully on the plane ride hope.
Now for thoughts on conservative Republicans- as promised. My business partner here in Phoenix is a very very very conservative Republican. I tend to be a moderate to liber Democrat. Throughout the week he kept telling me that as I climb the corporate ladder and enjoy success I will convert to be a Republican. This outraged me and made turned me even more to the far left. I know his rationale is that as my income increases I will want to enjoy the tax incentives designed for the rich by Republicans. I do hope to increase my earnings and become very successful in my career- but I am willing to pay my fair portion to help the less fortunate. The tax cuts have got to stop. I mean here we are going so deep in debt for the war in Iraq and Hurricane relieft- but yet some Republicans are not in favor of raising taxes. Plus Bush still wants to overhaul Social Security- don't forget about that! It seems only to make common sense that if we as a nation are going to increase our spendings- we need to increase our income. I don't like paying taxes any more than the next guy- but I do want to see our country safe and secure, I do want to see all those devasted by the hurricanes to receive help, I do want to see the many social problems that our own society has today to be addressed-- so I am willing to chip in my part to get the job done. I would like to propose that our Senators and Congressman cut some corners-- a little less luxury on capital hill. I heard a report on the news the other day about the very expensive cars owned by our elected officials-- why not drive an Accord or Camry or Taurus like the rest of us? Ok --- I've vented enough!
Well I need to power down the PC and head over towards my gate -- I will post some pictures soon.
I hope this didn't get too long for you- I needed to catch up!

Friday, October 07, 2005

Am I a control freak?

I will upload my pictures and post some next week. I am really to tired to post them right now- Today was the Oppenheimer conference - the main day of it. It was OK- some boring sessions and then some good ones.

I took a desert Jeep tour for about 3 hours this afternoon- the scenery was spectacular- it was just really hot.

This conference had surfaced the question to me-- Am I a control freak? I have not really been in control of my schedule the last week at all- and it is driving me CRAZY. I travel well and enjoy the adventure of it all-- but I am ready to return home. I am sure that if I was here on pleasure and not business- I would feel completely different.

I was also thinking about this in relation to relationships- and the question surfaced-- have I lived alone and independent too long?? It realy made me wonder-- I think both are good questions to keep in mind.

Good nite all.

Thursday, October 06, 2005

Exhausted-

I am really tired tonite. My business partner out here in Arizona has worn me out- yes he did take me to meet many of my customers- but his stupidity astonished me. I have interviewed for a position just like him before- and yet Nationwide will bring guys like this on to sell our products.

I am now at the resort for the conference. My room is beautiful- I have the biggest bathtub that I have ever seen- and the bathroom has a flat screen televison in it-- it was bizarre to take a bath with a TV going in the room.

OK- I am really tired--
I will write soon about my frustration with the right wing and with snobs- a lot of that to come soon.

Tuesday, October 04, 2005

Travels-


















Hello from Scottsdale Arizona. I had some meetings today up in the town of Prescott, AZ which is about 2 hours north west of Phoenix. The drive up was incredible. The mountains were beautiful- I am surprised at how much I am enjoyed Arizona-- it is really pretty here. I am not sure that I could could deal with the heat in the summer--- but it is nice to visit. The pool here at the hotel is great- 8 feet deep at one end-- perfect to destress at the end of the day. Tonite my business partner, John, and his wife are taking me to dinner at Ruth Chris steak house. I am excited as I have never been there.

I'll try to keep updating throughout the week.